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    October 19

    拔苗助长之幸福.

    奥数课,女儿到黑板上做题目,一个正方形,已知道周长96,一边分为均等的三块,一边分为2,6块小的长方形,求小长方形的周长.

    很简单的一道题目,女儿先列了个式子: 96 ÷5,擦掉,再写,成了: 96÷3,想想不对,终于写了: 96÷4=24, 然后把长=12,=8,周长也求出来:40,可还是觉得没有信心,跑去问老师: “老师,周长倒底是什么?” 弄得老师大笑.

    我坐在后面看得肚皮痒,笑成了一团.

    不过类似的题目我还没有教过她,因为我总是忙,是她自己做出来,虽然花了点时间,非常值得,

     

    下课后,女儿的奥数老师说我女儿发散型思维,不象一般的中国的小孩,思维很僵化,机械.

    心里好开心好开心,比女儿拿到好成绩更开心,虽然我是填鸭式教育的卫道士,虽然我也是个题海战术的信徒,但女儿却好象处处和我对着干,老是有她自己一套.

     

    有次我对女儿说,要拿个小榔头,每天朝她的小脑袋敲敲,把英语数学考试题目都装进去,女儿说我偏不让你装偏不! 偏不!你装了我就忘掉,都吐出来.

    我说你要吐也等考试考完了再吐哦,老妈求你了.

    女儿开始没反驳我,过了会,突然问了个问题:”老妈,你说人为什么要考试?”

    我说,是为了检验学习的效果哦,看看小朋友有没有掌握啊

    女儿跳起来说:”,那你为什么说要忘就等考试考完再忘啊?”

    我猛然发现上了这小人儿的套了.这么小居然会把老妈看穿,弄得我狼狈不堪.强啊!

     

    拉着女儿的小手,和她并肩走着的时候,觉得好幸福好幸福,这一刻,真的好象能够在生命中永恒.人为什么要有孩子啊.为什么孩子会带来这么多满足啊.

    满足得我好象快要承载不住了.

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